Abigail and David’s Comrades: A Case of Great and Not-So-Great Advice
David, the future king, is on the lam. Except for brief moments of skin-deep remorse Saul is bent on impaling the young man who replaced the troubled king as the focus of public adulation. Seriously, how could the groupies do any less than swoon over the ruddily handsome warrior who took down a lion, a … Continue reading Abigail and David’s Comrades: A Case of Great and Not-So-Great Advice
To Help or Not to Help, that is Not the Question: Gen. 2:18, Woman as Man’s “Helper,” and Issues in Translation
Recently I took the time to do an in-depth study of ezer, the Hebrew word describing the first woman in Gen. 2:18, 20 that is often translated “helper” in English. Though I’ve spent way too many years reading every scholar I could get my hands on, I mean every scholarly comment I could get my hands … Continue reading To Help or Not to Help, that is Not the Question: Gen. 2:18, Woman as Man’s “Helper,” and Issues in Translation
The Double Standard, Men as Victims of Adultery, Prostitution, and Jesus: A Look at Proverbs 6:26
In reading commentaries for my post The Stereotype of the Nagging, Contentious Wife, I ran across an interpretation of Proverbs 6:26 that I’m not convinced is entirely accurate. This is the verse that seems to say it’s okay for a man to visit a prostitute, though he’d better stay away from another man’s wife. I … Continue reading The Double Standard, Men as Victims of Adultery, Prostitution, and Jesus: A Look at Proverbs 6:26
The Stereotype of the Nagging, Contentious Wife: Understanding Proverbs in its Original Setting
I’ve come across a couple of sources lately that argue the book of Proverbs teaches that wives have a tendency to be complaining, contentious nags. One author believes that in this ancient book of wisdom we learn about “gender sin,” which consists of anger for men and nagging and complaining for women. A gender sin … Continue reading The Stereotype of the Nagging, Contentious Wife: Understanding Proverbs in its Original Setting
Emotion or Reason? What Coronavirus Teaches Us About Embracing a Full Humanity
I’ll admit I’ve been a bit distracted by the Coronavirus crisis. My youngest daughter is a trauma-ICU nurse in Nashville and she’s scared. They don’t have enough personal protective equipment and although her unit is not focused on COVID-19 patients, the physicians move between the emergency department and the trauma ward on a regular basis. … Continue reading Emotion or Reason? What Coronavirus Teaches Us About Embracing a Full Humanity
“Does Gender Matter?” My Latest Podcast Interview with Dr. Juli Slattery
It feels strange to post about ordinary things – like the meaning of masculinity and femininity – in the midst of the coronavirus pandemic. Life has been put on hold in so many ways here in Colorado with school, restaurant, retail, resort, and government office closings. Applications for unemployment insurance have skyrocketed in the state … Continue reading “Does Gender Matter?” My Latest Podcast Interview with Dr. Juli Slattery
My First Article Published by Fathom
This week my first article for Fathom Magazine came out. It’s more personal (and shorter) than most of what I write here. So if you’ve been wondering what in my story has made me so passionate about women and their identity as image-bearers of God, take a look! It’s very strange to me now that … Continue reading My First Article Published by Fathom
“Around the House, Women Rule” and Other Marriage Myths
It seems like everywhere I turn these days I’m hearing that women rule the roost. Recently I had a conversation with a Christian leader who said that it’s women who have the power at home. He went on to explain that, for example, men ask their wives for permission before heading out to the golf … Continue reading “Around the House, Women Rule” and Other Marriage Myths
Who is Struggling More (Men or Women) is the Wrong Question
In my last post I mentioned a conversation I had with a speaker at a recent theology of marriage conference. I have since learned that he is a member of the Council on Biblical Manhood and Womanhood, which may explain why our conversation was like two trains passing each other in the night.[1] Anyway, this … Continue reading Who is Struggling More (Men or Women) is the Wrong Question
In Search of Male Leadership: The Logical Inconsistency of Defining a Man’s Initiative in One Way and a Woman’s in Another
Recently I attended a conference on the theology of marriage hosted by Denver Seminary. Over lunch I had a brief conversation with one of the presenters, a megachurch pastor and chair of the theology department at a school in another state. We were talking about whether the differences between men and women have to do … Continue reading In Search of Male Leadership: The Logical Inconsistency of Defining a Man’s Initiative in One Way and a Woman’s in Another
What I Learned from the “Perfect” Wife: Sarah, Abraham and 1 Peter 3:1-6
I’ve mentioned this here before, but my marriage went through a radical transformation a number of years ago. For a long time my husband and I tried to work out our relationship according to traditional “biblical marriage” teachings, with him “leading” and me “submitting.” We were committed to this path since we thought it was … Continue reading What I Learned from the “Perfect” Wife: Sarah, Abraham and 1 Peter 3:1-6
John MacArthur, Beth Moore, and Jumping to Conclusions: The Assumptions Behind a Hierarchical Interpretation of 1 Timothy 2:12
Last week I listened to a podcast where two women explained how they “stand with the Bible” when it comes to their hierarchical interpretation of 1 Timothy 2:12. As far as these Sheologians[1] are concerned, this verse proves that women should not teach the Bible to men, be in positions of authority over men, or … Continue reading John MacArthur, Beth Moore, and Jumping to Conclusions: The Assumptions Behind a Hierarchical Interpretation of 1 Timothy 2:12
It’s Good to Be a Woman Day Retreats
A few years ago I was asked to join a team of young women who hoped to reach the women of their generation with a conference designed specifically for them. Feeling that the women’s ministry of our church catered to an older generation, these young leaders were hoping to capture the hearts of their peers. … Continue reading It’s Good to Be a Woman Day Retreats
Five Reasons I Don’t See Male Authority in Genesis 1-3
I recently recorded another podcast with Dr. Juli Slattery, cofounder of Authentic Intimacy and author of Rethinking Sexuality. This time the discussion was about husbands and wives who control their spouses. The other guest that day was Dr. Ron Welch, a counseling professor at Denver Seminary and author of The Controlling Husband. Our topic was … Continue reading Five Reasons I Don’t See Male Authority in Genesis 1-3
Adam and Eve Didn’t Reverse Roles
Some of you who read my post A Bad Decision and the Fallacy of the Role Reversal Argument had questions about the whole idea of a role reversal. What I want to do today is explain how Genesis 3 is interpreted to get the idea and how this position misses the point. In case you … Continue reading Adam and Eve Didn’t Reverse Roles
A Bad Decision and the Fallacy of the Role Reversal Argument
Now and then my husband and I make a bad decision. It doesn’t happen often, but it does happen. Sometimes it’s one we arrive at together, sometimes it’s his decision, and sometimes it’s mine. Recently we made a killer of a bad business decision. The painful consequences of our fecklessness prompted Jim and me to … Continue reading A Bad Decision and the Fallacy of the Role Reversal Argument
Domestic Abuse, A Second-Class Wife, and a Bible Horror Story
Sometimes reading the Bible will make you sick. Unflinchingly honest about man’s inhumanity to man, there is more than one narrative that is nearly impossible to stomach. We are left wondering how and why such horrors came to be and, in our disgust, prefer to look the other way. We tell ourselves we don’t need … Continue reading Domestic Abuse, A Second-Class Wife, and a Bible Horror Story
Rethinking Christian Marriage
Most people I know have an intuitive sense that men and women are equally capable and that in the best marriages they work together as a team. Yet many of these same individuals assume that it is God’s plan for the man to be in charge, based on the fact that the Bible commands wives … Continue reading Rethinking Christian Marriage
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